Cross Earrings

Cross earrings are the discreet version of wearing the symbol. Studs and small hoops with the cross set in or hung beneath, plain or pavé — 18K gold vermeil at 3 microns over solid sterling silver, or gold plated. Gold, silver and rose gold, several sold as singles, from $46.

Cross Earring Questions

Is it disrespectful to wear cross earrings?

Opinions differ within Christianity, and it's a fair question rather than a silly one. Some feel the cross belongs at the neck and nowhere else; most don't distinguish. Nothing in scripture or church teaching addresses earrings specifically. If it matters to you, ask someone in your own tradition rather than the internet.

Can you wear one cross earring?

Yes, and several of these sell as singles. A cross in one lobe with something plain in the other is common, particularly among men. Nothing about the symbol requires a matching pair.

Can you wear cross earrings to work?

In most workplaces, yes — religious jewelry is generally protected and small studs rarely register at all. Strict uniform policies in customer-facing roles are the exception. Studs sit more discreetly than anything hanging.

What size works best?

Small. A cross reads clearly at 6 to 8mm on the lobe and stops reading as jewelry much past 12mm. Studs sit flat and stay legible; hanging crosses turn and show edge-on, which is why the set-in versions look better day to day.

Are they a good gift?

For a confirmation or christening, yes — it's the traditional occasion. Outside that, be reasonably sure the person wears the symbol. A cross isn't neutral, and giving one to someone who doesn't wear it puts them in an awkward position.

Will they tarnish?

Cut-out shapes have more edge than solid ones, and edges are where plating thins first on any piece. At 3.0 microns of gold over solid sterling silver — against an industry standard of 0.2 — these hold up well. Keep them away from chlorine and put them on after perfume.

See also cross jewelry, cross necklaces, religious necklaces and stud earrings.